FAQ
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When should I rsvp by?
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We'd love to hear back from you by Sunday, November 15, 2026. You can RSVP through the RSVP page of our wedding website. An early reply is helpful to our planning to ensure every little detail are thoughtfully arranged so you can simply relax and enjoy the celebration.
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What time should I arrive before the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive by 3:30 PM at the latest so you have time to park, find your seat, and settle in before the ceremony begins at 4:00 PM.
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What's the dress code?
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Black tie is mandatory. We ask that all guests dress in formal evening attire—tuxedos or dark formal suits for men, and floor-length gowns for women. Since the ceremony and cocktail hour are outdoors on grass, ladies may want to consider block heels or wedges.
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Can I bring a date?
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Because of limited space, we're only able to accommodate the guests formally named on your invitation. If you've been given a plus-one, their name will appear alongside yours when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
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Are children invited?
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While we absolutely adore your little ones, we have chosen to make our wedding an adults-only celebration. We hope this gives you the chance to relax and enjoy a night out with us!
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I have a dietary restriction or a food allergy—what should I do?
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Please let us know when you RSVP. There's a place on the RSVP form to note any allergies or dietary needs, and we'll make sure our caterer is aware.
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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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Both! The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors on the beautiful grounds of Tuscan Estate at Monserate Winery. The reception will move indoors to the main barrel room, but you're welcome to step outside throughout the night to enjoy the evening air.
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What's the weather like in February?
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Fallbrook winters are typically mild during the day (mid-60s°F) and chilly after sunset (low 50s°F). We recommend bringing a wrap, jacket, or shawl to stay cozy once the sun goes down.
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes—there is plenty of complimentary parking onsite. Overnight parking is also available, so if you'd like to Uber or Lyft home at the end of the evening, you're welcome to leave your car at the venue and pick it up the following day. We always encourage a safe ride home!
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Where should I stay?
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We're currently working on securing discounted room blocks at a few nearby hotels to make travel as easy as possible for our guests. Details, booking links, and group codes will be announced on the Travel & Accommodations page of our website soon.
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What's the nearest airport?
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San Diego International (SAN), John Wayne (SNA), and Ontario International (ONT) is roughly an hour away. LAX is a longer drive (around two hours) but offers more flight options.
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Do you have a registry?
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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. For those who have asked, we are not registered anywhere — if you wish to honor us with a gift, we would be grateful for a monetary contribution toward our honeymoon as we begin this next chapter. Thank you so much for your love and generosity! A card box will be available at the wedding for contributions.