FAQs

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by July 26th, 2026.

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Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card?

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Once formal invites have been sent out, a link to RSVP within our website can be found. Please RSVP online.

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What is the address of the wedding venue?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be held at the Cape May Convention Hall. The address for this location is: 714 Beach Ave Cape May, NJ 08204

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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

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The ceremony will commence at 4:30 p.m. Please arrive at the venue around 4 p.m.

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Have you reserved room blocks at one or more hotels?

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We have reserved room blocks at multiple hotels including; Marquis de Lafayette Hotel, Montreal Beach Resort, ICONA Cape May, and Grand Hotel of Cape May. Please check out the Travel tab of our site for more information.

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Will there be a shuttle to and from the hotels?

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We have selectively set up reservation blocks at hotels that are within walking distance from the wedding venue. No shuttles will be provided.

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What is the dress code for your wedding?

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Our dress code is Formal Attire. Guests are welcome to wear any type of formal attire (nice cocktail dresses, elegant dresses or pantsuits, or suits).

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Are children allowed?

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We love your children but this is an adults only event (with a few minor exceptions).

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What is the wedding day itinerary?

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We are still hashing out the details of the wedding schedule. Any updates will be made in the schedule tab of our website.

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Is there parking available near your wedding venue?

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Meter parking near the venue is limited. We would recommend either walking or if needed taking an Uber/Lyft from where you are staying.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The wedding ceremony will be held outdoors on the Cape May Convention Hall patio overlooking the ocean. Cocktail Hour will be both indoor and outdoor. The reception will be held indoors with access to the patio throughout the night.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Of course! Party on!

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What time will your wedding reception end? Is there an after party?

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Wedding reception will end at 10 p.m. More information to come at a later time on the after party.

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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We kindly ask that you keep our wedding ceremony "unplugged". Feel free to take any photos you'd like during cocktail hour and reception.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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#NandJTideTheKnot2026

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Why can't I pump my own gas in New Jersey?

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It is illegal to pump your own gas in New Jersey. A gas attendant will pump your gas for you. No need to get out of your car. Trust us, we think it's silly too.