FAQs
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When should we RSVP by?
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We would like everyone to RSVP by April 25th, 2026. If you do not RSVP by that date, you will be marked as "not attending." We would love to celebrate with you, however we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVPs.
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How do I RSVP?
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The RSVP page will not be available until after the formal invitations are mailed out, which will be near the end of 2025. Once this happens, you can click the RSVP tab above and RSVP at any time! We will NOT be including a paper RSVP with the invite. If you are unable to RSVP through the website, please reach out to Justin, Mikayla, or their parents to inform us about your attendance.
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What do I do if I can't make it?
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You will be dearly missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "Not Attending" so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!
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If I have a change of contact information (phone number, email address, or home address), how do I update you?
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Feel free to either contact Mikayla, Justin, or their parents to update any of this information. You may also update your contact information by using this link: https://www.zola.com/addr/Ee1pNZejZ If you haven't filled out this form at all, please click on the link to update all of your current information to keep us up-to-date on how to reach you all. Thanks for all your help!
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will start promptly at 4:30 pm, and we ask that everyone arrive by 4:15 pm so we can start on time! Guests may start arriving at 3:45 pm. Please try to arrive sooner rather than later to account for parking! All guests who arrive late will be asked to wait in their car or watch from a distance until after the ceremony ends to join us at cocktail hour.
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Are the ceremony and reception in the same place?
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Yes! Both will take place at Carolina Grove in Hillsborough, NC.
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Where should we park?
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There is a parking lot on the property at Carolina Grove that can house 90 vehicles. Please consider carpooling with fellow wedding guests if possible!
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Will the wedding be outdoors?
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Yes! As long as mother nature is kind to us *fingers crossed* Our ceremony will be held outdoors with a cocktail hour to follow! We ask that you dress accordingly. This will be followed by an indoor reception.
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Can I take pictures or videos?
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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony. This just means that we are asking that all phones and devices be put away and on silent/turned off during the ceremony. Why? Well, we've hired a professional photographer and videographer to capture some of the most important moments of our lives, and we'd hate to have a well-meaning person's phone/device blocking that moment for them to capture. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you want!!! And we promise to share the ceremony photos as soon as we get them. Thank you for you cooperation!
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Is there a dress code?
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We would love to see our family and friends dress up with us! We are requesting formal attire for our wedding. This includes mid/floor length dresses or pantsuits for women. Men may wear suits or pair a sport coat/jacket with slacks/dress pants. Please no jeans, t-shirts, shorts, or baseball hats. Please feel free to wear any color other than white!!! The bridal party will be in shades of pink and green.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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If you received a plus one, your guest's name is listed on your invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding as an intimate event with close friends and family.
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Are kids invited?
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We have decided to keep our wedding and reception as an adults-only event (with the exceptions of some children in our immediate family). Invitations will be specific and will include the names of the children who are invited. As much as we love your little ones, we hope you understand!
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Should we bring a gift or money?
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We appreciate you all and are not expecting anything in return for our wedding. We have created a registry of "funds" through our wedding website if you would like to gift us with a donation for either our future together or our honeymoon. Thank you so much in advance!
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I didn't answer your question?
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Please reach out if you have any further questions or concerns!