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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP as soon as possible—ideally as soon as you know whether you'll be able to join us. Your timely response helps us finalize our headcount and accommodations. Please note that we must receive all RSVPs by June 19, 2026.

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Are Kids Welcome?Are Kids Welcome?

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While we adore babies and toddlers, we've designed our wedding celebration for guests eight years and older. We completely understand if this impacts your ability to attend, and we hope you'll know how much we'd love to have you there.

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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

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For any questions or concerns, please feel free to Kale by phone 360-310-2776 or by email kalelancasterwedding@gmail.com

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What is the dress code?What is the dress code?

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The dress code is semi-formal. We suggest cocktail dresses for women and suits (tie optional) for men. Heels are optional, as this is a backyard wedding and the grass can be tricky. Please stick to light greens, golds, black on a case by case basis if possible, but summer colors such as red, pink, purple and blue are all encouraged. No dark greens as the bridesmaids will be in dark green.

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Will there be alcohol?Will there be alcohol?

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Yes, we will have an open bar containing beer and wine for all of our guests to enjoy through the reception. Please keep it within reason, and there will be options for anyone who would like to abstain from alcohol.

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Can I bring a plus one?Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. The only exceptions are to those who are married, and we simply forgot to add your lovely spouse. Thank you for understanding!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There will be limited parking available at the house. While the property is big, it will fill up with cars quickly and you might get blocked in! We encourage you to carpool or use a ridesharing service!

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What happens if it rains?What happens if it rains?

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Rain or shine, the celebration continues! Please bring umbrellas or an appropriate jacket if rain is in the forecast.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly request that guests do not take photos during the event. We have professional photographers to capture every moment so we can unplug and enjoy!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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This is totally up to you, but the ceremony does start at 1:30 pm on September 19th, so please be present before then.