Our suggestion is to think "dressy casual." Dress for the season and the setting: early summer at an orchard and cider taphouse. There will be plenty of opportunities to spend time outside if the weather permits, and also lots of dancing. Sundresses, flowy skirts, jumpsuits, or slacks with a nice blouse. Sweaters, sport coats, and casual blazers. Comfortable shoes that are suitable for grass and gravel.
You have a number of options: If you're coming to and from a hotel in Poughkeepsie, let us know, and we'll plan for our shuttle to pick you up and drop you off. Ubers are also available. If you're coming from NYC, take the Hudson line on Metro-North to Poughkeepsie. Let us know your arrival time at the Poughkeepsie station so we can include you in the shuttle schedule, or take an Uber. Anyone planning to drive can park at the cidery in a gravel lot.