FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP via the Zola wedding website by July 8, 2026 to allow us plenty of time to provide vendors with a final headcount.

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How should I RSVP?

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We are asking guests to RSVP using our Zola wedding website to save some trees! Once the formal invitations are sent, the RSVP page will go live on this website.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony begins promptly at 3:00 PM, so we are asking everyone to arrive between 2:30 and 2:45 PM.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! Parking for First United Church of Christ in Milford is right off of W Main St. Street. Parking for the reception will be available in the neighborhood. We just ask that guests do not park in front of the Spillane house or block driveways.

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Is there a dress code?

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The short answer is no; wear what makes you feel good! If a dress code is helpful for you, then semiformal would be the best fit for our occasion. Keep in mind this is an outdoor, backyard, August reception, so we are hoping for a warm, sunny day!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Our catering includes various food truck vendors who will cater to vegetarian and GF/Gluten Allergy needs and preferences. If you have a food allergy, please do not hesitate to reach out to let us know, so we can ensure everyone has plenty to enjoy!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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More information regarding hotel recommendations and blocked rooms coming soon!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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More information on shuttles to come!