Julia was at work and a co worker started talking to her about a co-ed softball tournament she attended. She was going on and on about this really nice guy she met, Ryan, as she is showing Julia photos of him on Facebook. She explains he's widowed and again, going on and on about how easy he was to talk to and such. Julia listened but was also laughing that her co worker seemed to be crushing on this guy and she was not single! A couple of days later while scrolling the dating app Bumble, she came across Ryan's profile. THE Ryan her co worker was raving about. "Well I better give this great guy a chance!" Julia thought, although hesitant when she saw he was covered in tattoos and sober while Julia enjoys cocktails and has zero tattoos. Julia swipes yes and it's a match! Julia sent a message (girl is required to message first) "Isn't it cool that our kids are the same age?" That was her pick up line and somehow it worked. After chatting a bit, Ryan sets up a date at Flores Mexican restaurant as he saw her love for queso and margaritas on profile. Sparks flew, conversation was flowing, and the meal had ended but they wanted to continued the date so they went to High 5 and bowled. From that day forward they were inseparable