FAQ

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When do I need to RSVP?

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Please reply by September 1, 2023.

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How do I RSVP?

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Use this website! See the RSVP section.

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Can your caterer accommodate my dietary restrictions?

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Yes. Please let us know about any dietary restrictions. Whether you eat vegetarian or vegan, or you have a gluten or other allergy, we will work with our caterer to accommodate. You can let us know when you RSVP or send us an email.

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Can my children come?

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No. We ask you leave your kids at home. We love them, but our wedding is an adult-only affair. If you are traveling with your children and are struggling to find a sitter in Seattle, let Julia or Derrick know and we'll do our best to connect you with someone local who can provide recommendations. You may bring your children to the brunch we are hosting for family and out-of-town guests the morning after the wedding. Be sure to let us know how many will join you when you RSVP.

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Can I bring a date?

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Yes. Please include your date's name when you RSVP.

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Is there parking near the venue?

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Not a lot. The venue does not have dedicated parking for guests. While there is some nearby street parking, it’s limited. We recommend taking a rideshare or taxi to the venue or budgeting time before the event to look for street parking.

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What should I wear to the wedding?

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Whatever makes you feel beautiful! We anticipate most guests will dress somewhere in the range of business casual to cocktail/semi-formal attire.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Both. The ceremony and reception will be at the same venue. Weather permitting, the ceremony will be outside, as will the cocktail hour. Dinner will be seated inside. After dinner, you'll be able to party inside, outside, and inside out. (Yes that's a photo of the venue at the top of this page!)

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What is the weather like in October?

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Shrug emoji. The weather in Seattle in October is hard to predict, but the temperatures are usually high 50s to low 60s during the day and low to mid 50s during the night (that's Fahrenheit, for you Commonwealth friends). The internet suggests there is a 37% chance of rain on any given day in October; however, it rarely rains hard in Seattle and if it precipitates on our wedding day (rude) it likely will be light.

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What time should I arrive at the wedding venue?

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4:00 - 4:15 pm. The event space will open to guests at 4:00. We're aiming to start the ceremony by 4:30 pm.

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Will there be other events to attend during the wedding weekend?

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Yes. Our wedding party (and their significant others) and extended families are invited to join us for a Rehearsal / Welcome dinner the evening before the wedding. Our families and all out-of-town guests are invited to join us for a casual brunch the morning after the wedding. You can RSVP using this website. (You're family and/or an out-of-town guest but don't see the other events as an option when you RSVP? Let Julia or Derrick know.)

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes. We're serving beer, wine, and two signature cocktails. There is no need to bring cash to pay for drinks. We will generously tip the bartenders, but if you feel compelled to slip them a small bill or two to let them know their service is awesome, we're sure that would be welcome.

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The Skansonia is a boat, right? Will it be moving during the wedding?

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Yes, it's a boat, but, no, it won't be moving. No need to worry about boat-related motion sickness. The MV Skansonia is a restored vintage ferry (see photo above) and, although it's located on the Lake Union waterfront, the boat is permanently docked. She'll stay put, no matter how hard we party.

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How should I contact you if I have other questions?

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Email Julia (bishop.jm@gmail.com) and/or Derrick (derrickzwan@gmail.com).