FAQs

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Are kids allowed?

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While we love your children, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration (18+). The only children in attendance will be the bride's daughter, flower girl, and ring bearer. We kindly ask that you make childcare arrangements in advance. If you are unable to secure childcare, we completely understand and will miss celebrating with you. There will be no exceptions. Thank you so much for understanding. We can’t wait to celebrate with you! 🥂

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RSVP Etiquette

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📨 RSVP Information Please RSVP by the date listed on your invitation. Our venue has a very strict guest count per contract, and we must provide a final headcount in advance. If we do not receive your RSVP (yes or no) by the deadline, you will be marked as unable to attend. Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate late responses or additional guests. We will send one reminder text 1–2 weeks prior to the RSVP deadline. After that, we are unable to follow up individually. Due to venue capacity and security requirements, only guests who have RSVP’d “yes” and are listed on our final guest list will be admitted. Thank you so much for understanding and helping us make our day run smoothly. We truly cannot wait to celebrate with you! 🥂

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What time should we arrive?

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⏰ Don’t Be Late, We Can’t Wait! 💕 Please arrive between 3:30-3:45 PM so you’re ready when the magic begins. Our “I do’s” start right at 4:00 PM sharp. If you sneak in late, you’ll be whisked off to the reception area to wait until the ceremony is over. so set those alarms and join us on time for the big moment! 🥂✨

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Can I bring a plus one?

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💌 Plus-Ones Due to limited venue capacity, we are only able to accommodate guests who are formally listed on the invitation. If your invitation includes a guest’s name, we are delighted to welcome them. If it does not, we are unfortunately unable to extend a plus-one. We kindly ask that you respect our guest list as we are unable to make exceptions. Thank you for understanding and helping us keep our celebration intimate and within our venue’s requirements.

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Can I smoke on site?

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🚭 Smoking Policy Our venue is a private residence and working farm. For the safety of the property, animals, and all guests, there is a strict no-smoking policy on site. Smoking of any kind: including cigarettes, cigars, vaping devices, marijuana, or any other substances: is not permitted anywhere on the property, including parking areas and personal vehicles. This policy is set and enforced by the venue. Guests who do not adhere to this policy may be asked to leave. In addition, the bride and groom will incur a $700 fine for each offense caught by guests. We sincerely appreciate your cooperation in helping us respect and protect this beautiful space.

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🍾 House Rules (a.k.a. Don’t Be That Guest) 🕺

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We’re here for a good time, not a headline. So: • Behave. Zero tolerance for messy drama or out-of-control antics. • Drink, dance, and enjoy but if you get sloppy, security becomes your new plus-one. 😉 • Do NOT bring your own booze. We’ve got a fully stocked bar with licensed bartenders. Trust us, no one’s leaving thirsty. • If you sneak in outside liquor, it’s either going in the trash… or you are. 🚪✌️ Let’s keep it classy, keep it fun, and party all night without interruptions. 🪩🥂

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What do I wear?

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Our wedding colors are royal purple, gold, and ivory, so please avoid wearing those (unless you’re trying to camouflage with the décor 😉). And absolutely no white, that’s reserved for the bride! ✨ Dress Code: Formal Attire ✨ Think elegant gowns, cocktail dresses, suits, and ties. Please skip the sneakers, flip flops, sandals of any kind, jeans, shorts, or casual wear, we’re going classy for this celebration. if you arrive in any of these items, you will be asked to change or not granted entrance.

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📵 Unplugged Ceremony 💍

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We love your faces more than your phones. During our ceremony, we ask that you keep cameras and phones tucked away so you can be fully present for the “I do’s.” We’ve hired amazing photographers who’ve got us covered (and will make sure you look fabulous too). Once we’re hitched, snap all the pics, selfies, and TikToks your heart desires at the reception! ✨