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November 4, 2022
Tulsa, Oklahoma
#MortemLibertatem

Jessica & Raffaele

    Why Tulsa?
    Questions?

Questions?

We have answers!
Question

Where is...

Answer

https://www.tulsa.tours/map

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What dates should I book my rooms for?

Answer

We would love to hang with you for as long as your time allows! Most guests are checking in on Wednesday the 2nd and out on Saturday the 5th.

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What will the temperature be?

Answer

November (autumn in Tulsa) averages between 35°F and 55°F

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What should I wear?

Answer

We like to get fancy and we would like you to be fancy too! Thursday: Cocktail attire + Comfortable shoes to walk a short distance to bowling in. Bowling shoes will be provided. Friday: Get Fancy!! Formal if ya got it! Ralphie will be dressed in classy AF civilian clothing. Jess will wear some form of white. It’s going to be chilly!

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Is there a shuttle to the wedding venue?

Answer

Yes, we will have ONE each way so please don't miss it!

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Can I bring all of my kids?

Answer

As much as we love your little humans, this trip is all about you taking some time away to sit back, relax and enjoy sleeping in!

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Am I invited to the Welcome Cocktails and Bowling?

Answer

Yes! Everyone is invited to ALL THE THINGS!

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What’s Mortem Libertatem?

Answer

On our first “date”, Ralphie took me to a wedding. During the ceremony the Pastor (who was brand new) announced “today… today we celebrate death. The death of independence.” Ralphie and I lost our shit laughing and have talked about it since. Mortem Libertatem is Death of Independence in Latin. Although ridiculous it is kind of fitting so we are carrying it forward to our wedding!

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Is Tulsa Safe?

Answer

Yes, some parts can be sketchy (like anywhere) but we won't go there.

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