FAQs

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When should I rsvp by?

Answer

As soon as possible would be helpful, but please RSVP by Saturday, August 29, 2026! After this date, we will no longer accept "yes" RSVP's as we have to give our caterer final numbers.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please be seated by 3:50pm.

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Is there a dress code?

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Formal/Black Tie Optional: We invite you to dress up! Black tie attire is welcome, but a suit and tie or a formal dress are equally appropriate. Wear what makes you feel your best! If you don’t have these, PLEASE don’t feel obligated to go buy new clothes! Your regular Sunday best will work just fine.

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Can I bring a date?

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Only the guests listed on your online RSVP are invited. Please no additional plus-ones unless it’s specifically indicated for you. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to us!

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Are kids welcome?

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Children are welcome only if their names are included on your RSVP, so please double-check online before responding. We’d love to celebrate with your little ones—but if you prefer to make it a date night, feel free to line up a sitter! Please note that the venue has streams and ponds on the property, and after 9 p.m. the music may include some explicit lyrics. :)

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Is there parking for the ceremony/reception?

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Heigh Garden has a grass parking lot to the left as soon as you cross the bridge, but space is limited. PLEASE CARPOOL OR UBER WHENEVER POSSIBLE. I would recommend scheduling Ubers or Lyfts ahead of time. If those are slow, Charleston also has a local ride share called Link Transportation. DO NOT PARK IN THE GRAVEL ROUNDABOUT—this area must stay clear for vendors and Ubers to move through.