I think we both knew early on that there was something special about what we had. We were both straightforward with what we wanted out of life and of each other in a way that left no space for doubts to come between us. If true love exists, then this is it. I told Deborah our upcoming trip to Santa Barbara was a belated birthday trip, and the plan was in motion. Everything went perfectly. We ate good food and enjoyed the amazing weather. Finally, a sunset hike on the bluffs overlooking the ocean was where I proposed. I cannot even begin to describe what I felt at that moment. Every word I practiced was forgotten, so I just said what was on my heart... and she said yes!