FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by May 12, 2026 If you do not RSVP by this date, I will assume you are not coming to the wedding and will not be able to provide enough food for you
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Are you registered? Where?
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Our registry is on the "Registry" Tab on this website. Gifting money: gift us money in our registry. It is the first options listed on the registry. You are also able to Venmo us at Rebecka-Raper We also accept Zelle using the phone number (425)737-4004
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Is there a dress code?
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We are going for semi-formal/casual attire. Feel free to wear knee length, midi, or maxi dresses, dressy separates. No jeans. Please follow the color palette in our gallery tab. Please try to only wear colors that are similar to the color palettes. Our ceremony will be outdoors, so we recommend flats or wedges over high heels.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Our ceremony time is at 3:00pm. We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue at least 30 minutes ahead of time to ensure you have enough time to park and find a seat.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Parking is included at the venue! There will be a parking attendant to guide you as you arrive at the venue.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Please let us know your allergies before APRIL 2026 so this allows time for us to let our caterers know and find alternative meal options for you.
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Are kids welcome?
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Only intermediate family kids are allowed at the wedding. We love your little ones but use this day as an excuse for date night! Thank you for understanding. Some children allowed with approval
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Am I Allowed to Bring a Plus One?
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Your invitation and RSVP will show if you have a plus one to your invitation. If you must bring a plus one, please reach out with approval. This is an intimate wedding and want to keep it that way.
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Will there be an open bar?
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We will be serving beer, ciders, and wine during cocktail hour and the reception. There will be some non-alcoholic beverages as well! No hard liquor is allowed at the venue.
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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony will be held outdoors. I recommend wearing flat shoes or short heels/wedges. Dinner will be held inside of the barn, and reception will be outside as well.
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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
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During the ceremony, we kindly ask that you keep our wedding "unplugged" and refrain from taking any photos or videos. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special day. We hired professionals to take photos and videos for us so we can enjoy the moment with you all. During the cocktail hour and reception, please take as many photos and videos that you would like! We would love to see your point of view!
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What happens after the ceremony?
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Family photos will be after the ceremony. During this time will be cocktail hour. Please enjoy drinks on us. There is also appetizers to enjoy, as well as lawn games and Photo Booth available. Dinner is at 5pm Reception about 6!
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What time will your reception end?
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Our send off will be about 8:30pm! Please leave the venue by 9:00pm.
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Can I post wedding photos on social media?
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We kindly ask you refrain from posting photos of us until we make a formal post ourselves. Once we post ourselves, you can go ahead and post!