A Holy Hour is a time of quiet prayer, usually spent in a church or chapel during Eucharistic adoration. In Catholic tradition, this means spending time in front of the Blessed Sacrament—the consecrated host, which we believe is the real presence of Jesus. During adoration, the host is placed in a special vessel called a monstrance and set on the altar for prayer and worship. This is known as Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament. It’s a peaceful, sacred space where people come to sit with God, pray, reflect, or simply be present in silence. As we prepare for marriage, we would be so grateful for your prayers - however you feel moved to offer them. You might: Spend time in adoration or a Holy Hour Pray reflectively with Scripture or a prayer word Say a simple prayer or blessing for us Take a quiet moment to send good thoughts and intentions Offer your favorite devotional for our marriage (like a Rosary or Chaplet of Divine Mercy) We believe prayer has power, and your support means so much as we begin this new chapter together.
No dress code here! Please plan accordingly to stay cool and comfortable in the July heat. Both the ceremony and reception will be indoors but please note—neither space is air conditioned.
Absolutely. Our wedding is a celebration of our commitment, and while it includes spiritual elements that are meaningful to us, it is also a gathering of those we treasure. You don’t need to share our beliefs to take part - your presence with us is truly a gift. We hope the happiness of this day resonates with everyone, regardless of faith or background. We deeply cherish the joy of sharing it with you.
Our hope is to enjoy the significance of the day while minimizing stress. “Seek after peace and pursue it.” While we may include a few nods to traditional reception moments, we're looking forward to sharing a peaceful evening with those we love. We'd like our reception to be a simple, joyful gathering focused on connection. Instead of a traditional party with dancing and drinks, we're keeping things simple - a shared meal, fruitful conversation, and some beautiful live jazz played by Joseph's piano teacher, Mr. Dennis Pita. Rooted in our love for monasticism, we're celebrating our wedding on the Feast of St. Benedict - a man whose simplicity and attentiveness to the present moment continues to inspire our relationship. In that same spirit, we ask for your help in refraining from phone or screen use as you are able. There will be no phone police, we just want you to enjoy the people you're with. We’re so grateful to be celebrating this day with you!