FAQs

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Why St. Thomas?

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We love the Virgin Islands! We went to St. Thomas/St. John in 2015 and knew it was a matter of time before we'd be back! We love the idea of having our ceremony AND reception at this boutique beachfront resort and hope you can join us for our intimate, tropical wedding experience!

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Are children invited?

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Yes, but the decision to bring them is up to you! It will be the week of April vacation. You should be able to check them in the RSVP when you search your name. If not, just let us know.

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How and when should I RSVP?

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Please RSVP as soon as you decide if you can attend by using the online tab at the top. If you have any questions or concerns, definitely reach out to us! The RSVP is just to give us a better idea of the total headcount for planning purposes. A formal invitation will follow.

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Do I need a passport?

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No, St. Thomas and St. John are part of the US Virgin Islands so you do not need a passport. However, it's a great form of travel identification, and if you want to venture over to the nearby British Virgin Islands, you will need a passport.

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How do I get around the island?

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Taxis are the main mode of transportation on the island. If you want to explore all around or plan to stay for a while, then we suggest renting a jeep. Jeep Tips: -Book your rental Jeep in advance -Don't forget you drive on the left side of the road! -Maps on phones can be challenging to use/ follow - try a real map -Book from a rental company (like Discount Car Rental) that allows your Jeep right on the ferry over to explore St. John!

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Do I have to stay at Secret Harbour Resort?

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No! You are more than welcome to stay anywhere you want, it's your vacation too- stay where you are comfortable. We just ask that you join us at Secret Harbour for our ceremony and reception. Check out other ideas for places to stay in the travel section.

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How long do I need to stay?

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As long as you want! You can plan to just fly out for the wedding or stay all week- do whatever works best for your schedule.

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What is beach formal?

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The goal is to achieve a formal look while also keeping any outdoor elements in mind (sun, sand and water). Women • A formal summer sundress with sandals or a jumpsuit that’s light and dressy. Men • A light linen shirt and pants. Ties are not a requirement.

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What do you suggest for food?

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Here are a few options: 1) Have groceries delivered upon arrival to the resort 2) Shop yourself at a grocery store (Moe's Fresh Market Red Hook is nearby) 3) Eat at Secret Harbour 4) Restaurants in Red Hook (these are just a few suggestions, don't forget to do your own research!) -Duffy's Love Shack (island bar-restaurant) -The Easterly (fine dining) -3 Palms (fine dining) -Taco Chelle's East End (Mexican) -Island Time Pub (American) -Pesce (Italian) -Lattes in Paradise (coffee shop) -The Tap & Still (bar/ bar food) -Senor Pizza (takeout/ delivery)

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I don't see anything in the registry, should I still get you a gift?

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No, you are not expected to get a gift because we are having a destination wedding. Your gift to us is being able to come and enjoy this moment while having a vacation for yourself too! However, if you are feeling generous and would like to give us a gift, we did make a newlywed/honeymoon fund!