It's totally up to you! Our rehearsal and rehearsal dinner will be in Athens (all bridal party and extended family welcome) and our wedding is in Gainesville, about an hour from Athens. Our send-off after the wedding will be around 9pm, so if you stay in Athens, you could still make it back not too late.
Our first choice would be donations to our home renovation cash fund! However, if you would prefer to send a physical gift, there are lots to choose from on our Amazon registry.
Semi-formal/cocktail attire. The ceremony will be outdoors, but covered. Cocktail hour and reception will be inside. Wear comfortable shoes/attire for dancing!