FAQs
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How should we dress?
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We’re keeping it classy but comfortable! Dress in your spring best – soft colors, florals, or whatever makes you feel your finest. The ceremony will take place on a grass field, so we recommend opting for thicker heels or flats to stay comfy and steady!
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What if we can't make it?
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If you’re unable to join us in person, please let us know as soon as you can by updating your RSVP. Your love and well wishes mean so much, and we’ll be celebrating with you in spirit on our special day.
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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
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We invite you to arrive by 10:30 a.m. to enjoy greetings, light mingling, and find your seat. The ceremony will officially begin at 11:00 a.m!
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What time will the wedding end?
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The wedding will end no later than 3:00 pm.
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Can we walk around the gardens after?
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The garden will remain open until 4:00 p.m., so feel free to stroll, take photos, and enjoy the beauty of the grounds before you head home. There will also be a brief break after the ceremony, where you can walk around the gardens.
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Who can I contact if I have a question on the day of the wedding?
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Our wedding coordinator- details coming soon.
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Can I Take Photos During the Ceremony?
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Yes, absolutely! We’d love for you to capture and share the special moments of our day. We just ask that you keep phones and cameras out of the aisle so our photographer can get clear shots. Please be mindful of their space and avoid using flash. Thank you for helping us keep the moment beautiful!
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Are the ceremony and reception in the same place?
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Yes! Both will take place at Smith-Gilbert Gardens. The ceremony will be held on the Rose Lawn, surrounded by the garden’s natural beauty, and the reception will follow in the Carriage House, just a short walk away.
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Will there be dancing or just a seated reception?
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Our reception will be mostly seated, with plenty of space and time to walk around, mingle, and share good conversation. We hope this part of the day feels relaxed and full of love — a celebration of connection, laughter, and togetherness.
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What is your honeymoon fund about?
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Our honeymoon fund helps us create memories that will last a lifetime. After the wedding, we’ll be heading on a road trip through the mountains of Virginia. Contributions are completely optional!
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Is there parking available?
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Yes, parking is available at the front of Smith-Gilbert Gardens. For guests who may prefer a shorter walk, there’s also the option to drop off passengers at the top of the hill near the ceremony area.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We’ve included all invited guests (and their plus ones or family members) in the RSVP section of our website. As our wedding is small and intimate, we’re only able to accommodate those listed on the guest list. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with our closest loved ones.
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Do you have a menu for the wedding?
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Yes! Our menu will be available in the itinerary when you arrive at the ceremony. We’ll also have delicious vegetarian options available to ensure everyone can enjoy the meal. For specific menu questions, please reach out to Jordan or Sydnee.
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Are there assigned seats?
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For the ceremony, the first row will be reserved. The groom’s family will be seated on the left side, and the bride’s family on the right side. For the reception, assigned seating isn’t really our style — grab a seat that makes you smile! We want everyone to relax, mingle, and enjoy the celebration together.
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What if I want to give the bride and groom a present?
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Your presence is truly the greatest gift we could ask for. We already have everything we need in this world, but if you’d like to give something special, we have a honeymoon fund to help us make beautiful memories in Virginia. If you prefer to bring a physical gift, you’re welcome to bring it to the reception — we’ll open it after cake.