The dress code is black tie. We kindly ask men to wear tuxedos or dark suits, and women to wear floor-length gowns. We’d love for everyone to feel their best and ready to celebrate!
Yes! Shuttles will run between the Hyatt Regency Long Island and the Bourne Mansion on the day of the wedding. More details on pickup and drop-off times will be shared closer to the date.
Yes, valet parking will be provided at the Bourne Mansion for all guests. You’re welcome to drive to the venue, and your car will be taken care of upon arrival—no need to worry about parking yourself.
Please plan to arrive at least 15–20 minutes before the ceremony start time to allow time for parking (valet), finding your seat, and settling in before things begin.
If your invitation included a plus-one, they’re absolutely welcome! If you’re not sure, feel free to reach out—we’re happy to clarify.
We love your little ones, but we’ve decided to keep the wedding adults-only. We hope this gives all our guests the chance to relax and enjoy the evening. Thank you for understanding!
Check out our Things to Do page for ideas—from beaches to brunch spots to vineyard afternoons. Whether you’re here for the weekend or just the day, there’s plenty to explore nearby.