FAQs

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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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We want to see you dress to impress! Our wedding day attire is American or Nigerian formal. Colors of the day are Burgundy, Gold, Champagne, and Black. *Please refrain from wearing white*

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Can I bring a plus one?

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As much as we would love to say the more the merrier, we have a strict guest list and need to stay within our venue's capacity. If you have a plus one, it will be listed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding.

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we adore and love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only event. We appreciate you making arrangements in advance so you can celebrate with us!

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My first Nigerian wedding, what should I expect?

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Ndewo! Welcome! We are so excited that you will be joining us for an Igbo wedding and celebrate in Igbo traditions. Bring cash (in ones) to participate in "Spraying". Things to keep in mind: lots of dancing, activities and good food into the night. Scroll through the remainder of this FAQs to learn about "Spraying", "Kola Nut Ceremony" and "Igba Nkwu".

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What is “spraying?”

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“Spraying" at an Igbo wedding refers to the act of guests showering the bride and groom with money as a way of showing their love and support for the newlyweds. This tradition is also common in other parts of Nigeria and other African countries. Spraying is a common practice at Nigerian parties, including weddings, birthdays, and other celebrations. It is usually done by dancing up to the celebrant while holding cash, and then showering the person with the money as a way of expressing joy and happiness.

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What is the Kola Nut Ceremony?

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The kola nut ceremony is a traditional ritual in many African cultures, including in Nigeria, Ghana, and Sierra Leone. The ceremony involves the sharing and breaking of the kola nut, which is a symbol of hospitality, unity, and friendship in African communities. In Nigeria, the kola nut ceremony is usually performed at social gatherings such as weddings, funerals, and other important events. The ceremony is typically led by an elder or a respected member of the community, who offers prayers and blessings before breaking the kola nut.

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What is a IGBA NKWU ceremony?

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The Igba Nkwu or Wine Carrying Ceremony is a traditional Igbo marriage rite that is still widely practiced today. It is a crucial part of Igbo culture and is seen as a formal way of uniting the bride and groom and their families. Usually, the bride will welcome all guests in a simpler outfit donning beads on her body (different villages or tribes have different types/colors) and cowtail or fan in hand. And then disappear to change. After the two families exchange gifts, the bride is re-introduced to carry palm wine to search for her groom amongst the crowd of guests. When the couple is joined and recieve blessings from the families, they will re-appear in new outfits representing their new union.