FAQs
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How to RSVP?
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Please utilize our RSVP tab on our website to RSVP or you can RSVP by communicating directly to the bride, Shelby or the groom, Wesley!
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When should I RSVP? Do I have to RSVP?
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Yes, you have to RSVP. Please RSVP by June 1st 2026. Unfortunately, if we do not get your RSVP by then, we will miss you at the wedding as we must have a final guest count for our vendors and caterers by this provided deadline.
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Is there a dress code?
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YES! Semi-formal. No flip flops, jeans, or shorts. We would prefer everyone to wear ALL BLACK outfits and dress to impress! We want everyone to look their best. Please do NOT wear white/ivory/champagne or any white like color! You will not be allowed into the venue and will be asked to leave.
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Do you have a Registry or Honeymoon Donation Fund?
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YES! You can find this information under "registry" on our website. We will also have a gift/donations table at the wedding. Feel free to bring presents or donations as you wish. These are not mandatory but heavily appreciated!!
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Do I get a plus 1?
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If a plus one has been reserved for you, you’ll see the option to add them when you RSVP. If not, we truly apologize — as we’re paying for the wedding ourselves, our guest list is limited and we’re trying our best to accommodate everyone we love. If you believe we may have made an error, please don’t hesitate to reach out to Shelby for clarification.
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What time does the ceremony start?
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The ceremony starts promptly at 4:30pm Please arrive at 4:00 to find your seat. Anyone who shows up past 4:25pm will not be able to enter the venue and will have to wait until after the ceremony to enter.
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Can I take pictures on my phone during the wedding?
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No! ...and yes. Please DO NOT take photos during our ceremony! We want every guest to be present while we are getting married. We have hired an amazing photographer to capture this moment for us. During the reception - Go NUTS! Please share all photos with the bride and groom!
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Will there be Alcohol?
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Yes! We will have an open bar with signature drinks! Please drink responsibly and DO NOT DRINK AND DRIVE! Please bring cash for bartender tips if you would like. You may leave your car in the parking lot overnight but must come and get it the next day.
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Are there hotels near by the venue?
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Yes! There are hotels less than a mile away form the venue! You can find details under the "travel" tab on our website.
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Can I bring my Children?
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We love kids! However, we do not want them at our wedding unless specifically invited. This is NOT a child friendly wedding.