FAQs

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When and where is the wedding?

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The ceremony and reception will take place on Sunday, May 24th, 2026 at Bonnet Island Estate in Manahawkin, NJ.

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How do I RSVP?

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Use the QR code in your invitation to go straight to the RSVP tab on our website. If you’d rather send a paper RSVP, we’ve included a reply card with your invitation for mailing back to us!

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When should I RSVP by?

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We kindly ask that you let us know if you’ll be joining us by March 24, 2026.

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What if I don't RSVP in time?

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Please RSVP by March 24, 2026, to let us know if you’ll be attending. After this date, guests who haven’t responded will be marked as unable to attend. We truly hope you can celebrate with us, but we need a final headcount for our vendors and won’t be able to accept late RSVPs.

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What should I do if I cannot make it?

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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate "Will NOT attend" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending", but find that you will not make it, Please notify Brenna as soon as you are aware.

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Can I bring a guest?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Your invitation will be made out to "{Your Name} & Guest" if a plus one has been given to you.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes - The dress code is formal. For women, think floor length and midi. For men, suit and tie (or tux if that's your prerogative). Please no white, jeans or athletic wear.

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Where can I find accommodation options?

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Check out the “Travel” tab to see the hotels where we’ve reserved room blocks. We recommend booking your hotel or VRBO soon to secure your stay!

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Where can I park upon arrival?

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For guests that are not taking the shuttle service from the hotel, there is parking in front of the venue that allows for over night parking.

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Is the wedding outside?

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The ceremony will take place indoors in a charming little chapel just behind the reception venue. Cocktail hour will follow in a space that flows between indoors and outdoors, and then we’ll head inside for the reception.

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Are children welcome?

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While we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event with the exception of our ring bearers and junior groomsmen. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you unplug and enjoy the moment with us—please no photos during the ceremony. Don’t worry, we’ll have a professional capturing it all!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Is the Hudson wet? Yes, there will be an open bar—so come thirsty and ready to celebrate!