Flight
SFO and OAK will be the best options now that the wedding is in San Francisco. SFO will likely have more flights, but OAK is an easier airport to navigate in and out of. If you want to make it to the welcome party Friday night, we recommend arriving around 6:30 PM to give you time to navigate the notorious Bay Area traffic.
Travel Note
See the attached sheet for San Francisco hotels and Airbnbs https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1e02L_vzWpQcSxBGPsOE31i38y7R9Z5aQl0xkFEgqsa4/edit#gid=0