We love your kids - we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off. Therefor we regret, no kids invited.
If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes. If not, then you are invited as a single.
Semi-Formal. For the ladies anything from a pantsuit to a cocktail dress. For the Gents, a suit with no tie would be preferred.
For sure, the venue closes at 00:00, the party will then move to the boma area. Please note the bar will be closed so you are welcome to pack and bring your own drinks and snacks. Alternatively you can purchase drinks from the bar before they close for the evening.