Kira and Joel.
Yes.
No dress code, but we will judge you if you show up in sweatpants.
Free. But we don't have a full bar, so sneak in a flask if you're picky.
Unfortunately, we do not have the capacity for guests other than those who are listed on the invitation. We would be happy to celebrate with your whole family another time, though!
Not during the ceremony. We paid someone for that. But otherwise, yeah.