We decided to take Spanish 3 together in 2004. Neither of us were on our way to passing the class so Joe got to work making flashcards. Tonya thought this was a brilliant idea and started to BORROW the flashcards. Joe called it stealing. 18 years later Joe has decided to marry the thief. Tonya likes this idea because once they are married, they become “our flashcards”…no flashcard prenup has been signed as of yet. This is just one of the many, many stories that has shaped our relationship.