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When and Where will the wedding be?When and Where will the wedding be?

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Our wedding will take place on June 26, 2026, at the beautiful Saint Clements Castle & Marina in Portland, CT. 📍 Venue Address: 1931 Portland-Cobalt Rd, Portland, CT 06480 ⏰ Ceremony Time: 5:30 PM

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What time should I arrive?What time should I arrive?

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Please plan to arrive at least 15-30 minutes early to allow time for parking and seating. The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:30 PM.

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What’s the schedule for the day?What’s the schedule for the day?

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5:30 PM – Ceremony (outdoors) 6:00-6:45 PM – Cocktail Hour (outdoors) 7:00 PM – Reception (indoors) 11:00 PM – Party ends, but the memories last forever!

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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We’re keeping our celebration mostly adults-only, with the exception of a few little ones in our immediate family and close circle who we know will feel right at home. We hope this helps everyone enjoy a fun, relaxed evening!

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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Only if your invitation is addressed to "plus one." If your invite does not mention a guest, we kindly ask that you attend solo.

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Where are you registered?Where are you registered?

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We’ve created a registry with a mix of home essentials, experiences, and a honeymoon fund. You can check it out on our registry page on this website!

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What’s the dress code?What’s the dress code?

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We kindly ask guests to wear cocktail attire in bright spring colors. Think pastels, florals, and vibrant hues, please avoid black and dark tones. 🌷 Color Inspiration: Blush pinks, sky blues, sunny yellows, fresh greens, lilacs, corals, and warm peaches.

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Are gifts required?Are gifts required?

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Not at all! Your presence is the best gift, but if you’d like to contribute, we’d truly appreciate it.

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Can I send my gift before the wedding?Can I send my gift before the wedding?

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Yes! You can ship gifts directly through our registry or send them to 315 Empire Blvd, Rochester, NY, 14609

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Can I request a song for the reception?Can I request a song for the reception?

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Yes! Let us know your favorite song when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to get it on the playlist!

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Is there a cash bar?Is there a cash bar?

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Nope! Drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you!

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What’s the best airport to fly into?What’s the best airport to fly into?

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The closest airport is Bradley International Airport, located 33 miles from the venue.

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Where should I park?Where should I park?

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There is free parking at the venue for all guests.

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I’d love to give a toast—how can I do that?I’d love to give a toast—how can I do that?

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We’re keeping speeches limited to a few planned toasts, but if you’d like to say something special, let us know in advance!

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Is it okay to take pictures with my phone?Is it okay to take pictures with my phone?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, so we kindly ask that you put phones away during the vows. However, after that, feel free to capture and share all the fun at cocktail hour and the reception!

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Can I post on social media?Can I post on social media?

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Yes! We’d love for you to share your memories using our wedding hashtag: #TheGillottis

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Can I wear heels?Can I wear heels?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors on grass and stone walkways, so comfortable shoes or block heels are recommended!

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Do you have vegetarian/vegan/gluten-free options?Do you have vegetarian/vegan/gluten-free options?

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Yes! Please let us know your dietary preferences when you RSVP so we can accommodate your meal.

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Is there a post-wedding brunch?Is there a post-wedding brunch?

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Yes! Before we say our goodbyes, join us for a Farewell Brunch the morning after. We’d love to see you one last time before heading off into married life!