FAQs

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Are you having Karaoke?

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Amazing question - yes! Karaoke starts after the ceremony and ends with the start of dinner at 6 pm. Of course, all the usual cocktail hour things will happen as well - drinks and nibbles and chatting. But both Greg and Jocelyn have a passion for Karaoke (as do many of our friends) so our amazing DJ is an experienced Karaoke host and will be ready with most of your favorites! A note on song selection for singers and parents: We're trying to keep it at or under PG-13 (swear words are fine in moderation with maybe one or two F-bombs). We ask that you avoid any very sexually explicit songs, even if they don't contain swear words. Our DJ will have final say on song selection and if he feels a song isn't appropriate, you'll have to pick something else. If you're uncertain about a song, just ask him. For singers, try to be mindful of the fact that there will be kids at the wedding. For parents, there may well be some explicit lyrics sung, plan for that in whatever way you feel is appropriate (the venue is pretty big).

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I live in Madison and don't want to drive - can I just take an Uber home?

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Our beautiful location may not have immediate, available Ubers. However, we are offering a shuttle from a central location in Madison - The Indigo Hotel on East Washington. Feel free to take the shuttle from there and you will be able to get home without driving. We suggest you NOT count on getting an Uber, but utilize our shuttle or make other plans for your transportation home.

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Does the venue have parking?

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Yes, there are about 80 parking spots behind the venue and extra street parking if needed. Keep in mind, it is a large wedding, so the parking lot may fill up.

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Can you explain "Semi-Formal" again?

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The bride is wearing a fancy gown and the groom is wearing a tux. If you love to dress up - you will be in good company in gowns and tuxes. However, cocktail attire is great as well! Cocktail dresses and suits will fit in perfectly. And of course - don't stress about the kids. There will be many kids coming to this wedding and if you want to dress them up - go for it - but if they want to wear pajamas - go for it.

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Can you explain how a Jewish wedding ceremony works?

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Sure! We are so grateful you will be sharing in this very special tradition. First of all, there are many different types of Jewish weddings depending on what the couple chooses to use or not use within their ceremony. But, typically, a Jewish wedding actually starts months before the ceremony — the couple meets with their rabbi to reflect on the meaning of marriage, discuss their hopes for their life together, and learn about Jewish wedding traditions. (Even though Greg is not Jewish, the process of coming together to discuss shared values and our future has been very meaningful for both of us.) You do not have to be Jewish, know anything about Judaism, or speak Hebrew to enjoy this ceremony - we think you will find the rich culture and symbolism beautiful and we are grateful you will be sharing it with us. On the wedding day, the ceremony itself includes several key elements - The Chuppah: The wedding takes place under a chuppah, a canopy representing the couple's new home. It's a symbol of shelter, security, and the love and support of family and friends who form its "walls." Circling: Greg and Jocelyn will circle one another symbolizing unity, family, and completeness. The Ketubah: This is a Jewish marriage contract that outlines the couple's commitment to one another. Greg and Jocelyn will be sharing the English interpretation of the Hebrew they chose during the ceremony. 7 Blessings: Seven traditional blessings are sung in Hebrew and read in English over a cup of wine by close family and friends in honor of the couple's new life together. Breaking the glass: At the end of the ceremony, the couple breaks a glass with their foot. This is a celebratory moment and everyone shouts "Mazel Tov" - a Hebrew phrase that literally translates to "good luck" but is more commonly used to mean "congratulations!" Our Rabbi will be sharing much of this information throughout the ceremony - so no need to study up! We can't wait to share it with you.

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I don't see a choice for dinner - did I miss something?

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No. We are having a buffet style dinner and there are Vegan, Vegetarian, Gluten-Free, and Dairy-Free options.

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes, one kid in particular is a major part of the wedding. But if you feel like cutting loose, by all means, book the sitter!