I was the one who sent the first message to him through the dating app. After scrolling through his photos at first there were only two reasons why I decided to initiate the conversation. One being that I thought he was very handsome, and the second was that he had a photo of himself on his boat fishing. I thought to myself, handsome and a boater...let me just see how this works out. And then, we fell deeply, madly, crazy in love. We are each other's soulmates.