Q & A

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

October 1, 2026. If we do not receive an RSVP by the deadline we will assume you cannot make the wedding and will sincerely miss your presence.

Question

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

Please arrive by 12:45PM so everyone has time to be seated before the ceremony starts.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

The dress code is black tie optional.

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

If your invitation was addressed "Your Name + Guest" we would love for you to bring a date! Also, when you RSVP it will be under "Your Name / Guest" so if you lost your invite you can double check when RSVP-ing.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

We have a hotel block at The Breakers on the Ocean and Sea Girt Lodge. More information is on the Travel tab if you are interested in booking a room in our blocks.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

All food allergies can be accommodated for the day of the wedding. Please inform your server when they are taking dinner orders.

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

Unless your children are directly listed on your invitation or RSVP, we unfortunately do not have a seat held for them.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

There is parking available at both.