The dress code is coastal formal. We encourage elegant, elevated summer attire — lightweight suits or jackets (tie optional) and midi or floor-length dresses. The ceremony will be outdoors and the reception indoors. Heels are welcome (no grass or sand!).
We recommend staying in downtown Oceanside, within walking distance of The Seabird. All wedding events will take place at The Seabird. For hotel options, please see the Travel page for our recommended accommodations.
Valet parking at The Seabird is $50 per day, or $30 per day if you’re staying at the hotel under the room block. There are also several public parking lots within walking distance that offer lower rates. If you’re staying at a nearby hotel, we recommend walking or taking an Uber to the venue.
Due to limited space at our venue, we’re only able to accommodate the children of our immediate family (nieces and nephews).