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February 19, 2021
Charlottesville, Virginia

Jessica & Stan

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I Choose you

Stan Durham

and

Jessica Smith

February 19, 2021

Charlottesville, Virginia

Why Now?

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. (A quote from When Harry Met Sally)

Our Love Story

Stan's Version

Sometimes the most fantastic things can happen when you least expect it. I knew I was in trouble the first time I saw her. Brilliant, beautiful and sexy. Jessica showed up with her whole self. Authentic, brave and open. This extraordinary woman inspires me to live, love and be better. With God's grace I will endeavor to envelope her in love, admiration, respect, passion and prayer that not only glorifies our Lord, but also mirrors the love she has lavished on me.

Our Love Story

Jess's Version

The first time I spoke to Stan I knew he was different. We talked about our strengths, our love languages, our families and our faith. It was clear that we shared the same values. Even still, he challenged me by asking difficult questions. The more we learned about each other, the more vulnerable I felt. But also, I began to feel my heart open and grow. Before we even met, Stan told me that if we were going to date that he was going to pray with me and for me. He kept his word. We spent our first date at King Family Vineyards and later enjoyed dinner in downtown Charlottesville. We laughed a lot (and if you know Stan, you know he has a great laugh!). When our date was coming to a close, he wrapped his arms around me and we prayed together. It was terrifying and thrilling all at once. While our romance has been quick in many people's eyes, I have zero doubt that he is the man God wants me to spend the rest of my life with. We have prayed together fervently and spent time to truly discover one another. My life is more joy filled since he became a part of it. I can't wait to become his partner for life.

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