We love kids-we really do but we want our wedding to be your night off if possible. If you do bring you're kids just note that we can't provide babysitters so please watch your children especially at the venue. The property is large and unfenced with a levy to the river on the property and we don't want anyone to be hurt or lost.
Unfortunately, we can not coordinate transportation for everyone to and from the ceremony and reception. We recommend that family and friends who are staying near each other to arrange transportation together. There is free parking at University of the Pacific Morris Chapel and parking along the road at the reception venue.
If your invitation says "and Guest" then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Semi-formal, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
As we've lived together for the past few years, we don't need anything new and have no registry. We are grateful for a small wedding gift, gift card, or donation for our honeymoon fund.