We met volunteering with Community Kitchen, a local DIY collective that prepares and distributes hot meals to unhoused neighbors. When the COVID-19 lockdown happened, the two of us were part of the core server squad. Jessica left their phone in Lincoln's car one day, and Lincoln offered to call it (we couldn't find it); that's how he got their number! No bullshit!
We gelled immediately around values we both share: love for all creatures great and small, militant anticapitalism, antiauthority, and violence.