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FAQs

Question

What should I wear? šŸ‘°šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Answer

Jess will be in a wedding dress and Jamie will be in a suit—but the most important thing is that you feel comfortable! Whether that’s dressing up, staying casual, or something in between, wear what suits you best.

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How can I help with food? šŸ“

Answer

The wedding day meal is taken care of (because you know we love to eat šŸ˜‹). For the rest of the weekend, we can’t wait to cook, grill, and share meals together—it’s one of our favorite ways to spend time. If you’d like to pitch in with food, meal ideas, grocery runs, or just hanging out in the kitchen, that would mean so much. And please feel free to bring your favorite drinks along—we’d love to raise a glass (or two!) together. šŸ’›

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What about music? šŸŽ¶

Answer

We don’t have a DJ, but we know this group loves music! Please text us your favorite songs and we’ll add them to our Wedding Weekend Playlist so the vibes stay perfect all weekend long.

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šŸ“øWho’s capturing the memories?

Answer

We’ve asked Jess’s mom, Lisa, to help photograph the weekend, but we don’t want her to miss out on living in the moments with us. That’s where you come in! Please snap candid photos and videos whenever you can—big smiles, little moments, and everything in between and for the whole weekend!—and share them with us afterward. We’d love to have a collection of memories from everyone’s perspective.

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What should I expect? 🤨

Answer

The house is incredible, but this weekend is about relaxing, enjoying, and doing what makes YOU happy. Explore, hang out, nap, adventure—whatever feels good! We’re open to all ideas. šŸ’” Holden loves fishing, and we’d love to find a spot for him to enjoy it—if anyone has ideas or knows of a nearby fishing spot, please let us know!

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How can I help on the big day?šŸ‘°šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤µšŸ¼ā€ā™‚ļø

Answer

Jess: Help with hair, makeup, and keeping tissues handy for happy tears. Jamie: Just keep him laughing and calm (talking him ā€œoff the ledgeā€ā€”kidding…mostly šŸ˜‚). Your presence and love are the biggest gifts you can give us.

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