FAQs
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When and where should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by no later than 11/1/25. This allows us to get a final head count to the caterer and the venue. You can RSVP on our website. Please make sure to let us know either way!
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What if I can't make it?
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You will be missed, but we completely understand. Please RSVP “no” as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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Are kids welcome?
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While we love all of the littles, we want you to be able to kick back, relax, and celebrate with us, which is why we have decided to have an adults-only event; no one under the age of 16, please. The only children at the wedding will be from the immediate family members; our siblings. We appreciate you making arrangements to leave the kids at the home so you can get down and party with us!
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Can I bring a guest?
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Although we would love to offer a plus one to all guests, we have a strict guest list to stay on budget and meet our venue restrictions. If you have a plus one, they are listed on your invitation. If not, we prefer to just have you attend. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Is there a dress code?
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The dress code is semi-formal. For men, we suggest a suit, blazer, or button down with pants. For women, a dress, jumpsuit, or dressy separates would all work. Please no jeans. It will be in December and there's a chance that the ceremony will be outside so make sure to bring a coat!
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We have a few hotel blocks set up in surrounding areas. Please check the "Travel" tab to see which hotels have blocks. There are also Airbnb’s available very close to the venue. Please see our page on Travel for suggestions and more information.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please plan on arriving at 3:00 pm to give yourself time to park and find a seat before the ceremony begins at 3:30.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, there is plenty of parking on site. Once the parking lot is full, the venue asks that you park on one side of the road leading into the venue. There will be signs.
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Can I take photos?
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We ask that you do not take any photos during the ceremony. Sit back, relax, and enjoy it! We have hired a professional photographer to capture our special day. However, you are more than welcome to take photos and videos of the rest of the night! Just please do not post any photos online until the next day.
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What happens after the ceremony?
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After we say “I do,” the bridal party and family of the bride and groom will be taking photos. While we do this, we welcome you to enjoy cocktail hour where we will serve beer, wine, cocktails, and have a candy bar set up. We will take our seats for dinner around 5:00.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Heck yeah! We will be offering select wine, beer, and signature cocktails.
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Can I smoke on property?
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No. The property does not allow any smoking on the property. On that note, while marijuana is legal in Missouri, there is absolutely no drug use allowed on property. Thanks for your understanding!
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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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This will depend on weather and will be decided the week of the wedding. Please be sure to bring a coat in case we have an outdoor wedding. The reception will be indoors.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Please let us know as soon as possible if you have an allergy so we can make the necessary accommodations to make sure you enjoy our special day!
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Are you registered?
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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 1400 W Sheridan St Olathe, KS 66061. A wedding card box will be at our reception. You can find our complete wedding registry here on our website (and purchase directly from our wish list) under the "Registry" tab.
