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The Wedding Website of Jessica Alling and Patrick O’Shea
Question

Do I get a plus one?

Answer

Not everyone will be able to have a plus one. While we wish we could accommodate everyone, our venue does have a cap on the amount of guests we can have. All plus ones will be addressed on your invitation either by name, "and guest", or "and family"!

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! Our dress code is "black tie optional". We can't wait for you to dress up with us- please avoid wearing yellow as this is a bridal party color!

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Can I bring my kids?

Answer

Feel free to bring your kids to the church ceremony at the Saint Mary’s Chapel at 3pm. Our reception at the Lafayette Park Hotel will be an adults only celebration, starting at 5pm. We appreciate you making child care arrangements ahead of time and can't wait for you to let your hair down on the dance floor! (P.S. Let us know if you need help- we have a great babysitter network!)

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Have you reserved hotel room blocks?

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Yes! Our hotel room blocks will be available to book starting October 1st- please see the travel page for more information!

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Will the ceremony and reception be outdoors?

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Our ceremony will be a full mass inside the Saint Mary's chapel. Our reception will be primarily outdoors, with an indoor area available as well. (No grass! Feel free to wear your stilettos!)

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Will there be parking available?

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Yes! Parking is plentiful both at the church and hotel. Rideshare apps will also be available to and from all wedding related locations!

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