The first time Jerid and I met was at Rosa’s bar. It was my first legal bar experience with my good friend Tabitha. I was already pretty buzzed and I seen Jerid working the front door as a bouncer. He was sitting there with his flashlight checking everyone’s ID’s. We started talking for abit until someone I knew, passed by and asked “Hey JayJay where’s your husband?” In a split second, Jerid stopped and he just SWERVED. I could not believe that someone just BLOCKED me. I just got out of a relationship and so had he. I told myself- I want him! So a week later, I went back to the exact same place hoping he would be there. Lucky enough, yes he was. He was working the back door of the bar, so I sat next to him, again drunk as ever. I made it clear to him that I wanted to be with him and that he had no choice but to be my boyfriend. Later on, after the bar had closed Tabby told him that he was going to drive me home. He asked “Where does she live?” She told him down South, Captain Cook. He was in shock but decided to drive me home. From that moment, we could not leave one another alone. He came to see me every weekend if I couldn’t. Then the weekends, turned into everyday. Now, we live together.