FAQs
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Should I RSVP online or by mail?
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Either works! We've included a mailed RSVP card for the convenience of some of our loved ones, but if you RSVP through our website, there's no need to mail the card back.
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Can I bring a guest?
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Please refer to your invitation or RSVP, as only those listed are included in our celebration.
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Are children invited?
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While we adore your little ones, our wedding day will be an adults-only celebration unless otherwise noted on your invitation.
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What is the dress code?
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Black tie. Gentlemen are requested to wear tuxedos, and ladies are encouraged to wear floor-length gowns. We can't wait to celebrate with you in your finest attire!
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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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Our ceremony and reception will both be indoors.
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What's the weather like in Charlotte in October?
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October in Charlotte is typically mild, with cool mornings and evenings (think mid-70s). We recommend bringing a light jacket or wrap for any time spent outdoors.
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What if I've never attended a Catholic Mass?
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You are warmly welcome! There is no expectation to participate or know the customs of the Mass—simply following along with the congregation is more than enough. If you need more details, feel free to check out this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmOEo0Hasi4
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What should I wear to the church ceremony?
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Reception attire is welcome. Ladies wearing strapless or off-the-shoulder gowns are kindly encouraged to bring an elegant shawl or wrap to cover their shoulders during the ceremony.
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Is the ceremony unplugged?
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Yes. We kindly ask that all phones and cameras remain tucked away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present as we exchange our vows.
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Is there a registry?
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For those who wish to celebrate with a gift, we have chosen to create a honeymoon fund in lieu of a traditional registry.
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Where should I stay?
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A hotel room block has been reserved for our guests. Please visit the Travel page for booking details.
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Where should I park?
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Complimentary parking is available at the church for guests attending the ceremony. Validated parking will also be available in the reception parking deck. If you'll be celebrating with us into the evening, we strongly encourage using Uber. Ride-share discount codes will be available closer to the wedding.
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Is the celebration over after the reception?
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Not quite! For those who'd like to keep the celebration going, a party bus will depart following the reception for an evening of bar hopping. Additional details will be shared closer to the wedding.