House Or Rental
I would suggest airbnb in belmar, bradley beach, ocean grove, point pleasant, manasquan, freehold and some surrounding areas if coming with a group of people to cut cost. Hotels in summer can get pricey, but the airbnb's are nice and close to the beach is great for a 2 for 1 wedding fun and vacation! You can always uber/lyft or cab to the hotel where the shuttle will be providing transport.
Hotel
Flight
AC airport is about 1hr 15min from hotels/area wedding is held. It is a small airport and super convenient. If people are coming into that airport let one of us know, and we can try to arrange picks ups, rental car pools, etc to help everyone out as much as possible.
Flight
Newark is a larger, international airport about 45-50min to the area of lodging/wedding. Let us know if you are coming into this airport and we will try to help with any car pools, pick ups, etc as much as possible to make it stress free!