FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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We’d be so grateful if you could kindly RSVP by August 1st. Your response means the world to us as we get everything ready to celebrate together!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones! However, we’ve chosen to make our wedding an adults-only (21+) celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off and celebrate with us!

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Dress Code

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We’re going formal—think colorful mid-length to long dresses and sharp, stylish suits! To help our bridal party shine, we kindly ask that you avoid wearing Sage Green. We are aiming for a bright and joyful setting, so please steer clear of dark colors if you can! After all, September 19th is still summer, and we want the celebration to be as vibrant and full of life as the season itself!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We’ve reserved a room block at the Surf Club in Montauk, available on a first-come, first-served basis. To book, simply call them and mention you’re attending the Lopes wedding! We also recommend considering a group house rental on Airbnb for a fun and more spacious way to enjoy the weekend!

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How did you plan a wedding in less than 6 months?! What did you do, blackmail a wedding planner and time travel?

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Oh, it was a breeze… we just sold our souls and handed the rest to our wedding planner. Rita Ellis is an actual angel—probably the only reason we didn’t end up eloping in a parking lot. Follow her on Instagram @RitaEllisEvents

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Have a question we didn't cover?

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Please email us at Lopeswedding2025@gmail.com