If you are staying at the Montauk Yacht Club there are many amenities included like: access to 3 pools, private beach, paddle boards, bicycles, sunset boat cruises around Lake Montauk, 24 hour gym & spa.
Shopping in downtown Montauk Village you can browse local boutiques, surf shops, and gift stores along Main Street, with plenty of casual cafes & coffee shops. Favorite Coffee: Left Hand Coffee Breakfast: Joni's (if you're feeling healthy) or John's Pancake House (if you're feeling unhealthy) & Golberg's for bagels or a Spicy Hobo Favorite Casual Lunch: Joni's or Hooked (Best fish & chips & solid Lobster Roll)
Duryea's is one of our favorite restaurants in Montauk with casual oceanfront dining our favorite time is to go for lunch & then walk to Montauket afterwards. Get some rosé, oysters & the lobster cobb (if you want to $ball out$). The calamari & french fries are a must as well.
One of our favorite activities in Montauk is driving to the lighthouse. It's a beautiful drive to the lighthouse which is the oldest in New York and most eastern tip of Long Island. You can climb to the top or explore the museum inside. You can also stop at Camp Hero Park on your way, that has easy clifftop trails with beautiful ocean views and WWII bunker ruins.
For folks that are looking for somewhere to eat for dinner before the Welcome Party - below are a few recommendations: Gurney's Montauk: They have opened a new restaurant this year called Gigi's inside of Gurneys. Nice views of the Atlantic Ocean along with firepits & a great bar. $$$$ Bird on the Roof: Located downtown it's a cute & tiny restaurant with a small menu, but everything is done very well. Julie Riley said the "Spicy Bird" drink is the best drink she's ever had.... $$$ Harvest on Fort Pond: Family style cooking with pastas & local seafood that is located in downtown Montauk & overlooks Fort Pond. $$ The Surf Lodge: The infamous Surf Lodge actually has some pretty good food. If you can snag a reservation (14 days in advance) it's a fun scene to see while in Montauk. $$$ Navy Beach: Primarily known for it's beach location & nautical theme, more casual with burgers & simple seafood and as most places in Montauk...also has a great view. $$