FAQs

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What happens if I forget to RSVP in time?

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If you do not RSVP, please be prepared to bring your own chair and a sandwich! Just kidding. While we would truly love to have you join us for our special day, unfortunately, if you forget to RSVP you are not able to attend the wedding. We have to get an exact headcount turned in for our vendors and we cannot make adjustments after the RSVP deadline hits.

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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We ask that you kindly RSVP by August 10th. For your convenience (and ours) you can RSVP on our wedding website or by contacting the bride. For those who prefer it, you can fill out and mail us the RSVP card that was sent with your invitation.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we cannot accommodate additional guests. We can only allow the people named on the invitation. Your invitation will be made out to "{Your Name} & Guest" if a plus one has been given to you.

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What is the dress code?

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We would love to see our friends and family get dressed up with us! Our guest attire is "semi-formal" or "dressy casual". May we suggest the following attire: women might wear pant suits, dresses, or skirts. Men might wear a light dress shirt and pants with the option of a tie. We kindly request that you do not wear shorts or jeans and avoid wearing white or any color that is traditionally reserved for the bride.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony. This means we are asking all phones and devices to be put away and turned off or silenced during the ceremony. We will have a professional photographer and videographer to capture our special day. We want to ensure our guests are fully present during this special moment. However, please feel free to take as many pictures before or after the ceremony as you would like! In fact, we highly encourage it! We can't wait to see and experience our special day through the eyes of our favorite people. There will be a way for all our guests to upload photos and video clips throughout the night, or you can go back and upload all your favorite shots later. You can even see what others share!

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Are children invited?

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We love your little ones! However, due to limited numbers we can only accommodate for the children named on your invitation. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night and we truly appreciate your understanding.

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What time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony starts at 3:00. We encourage you to arrive at least fifteen minutes early so you have plenty of time and can be seated before we begin. If you arrive after the ceremony has started please seat yourself at the back of the ceremony space.

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Will there be an open bar?

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We will have an open bar with a variety of drink options. Keep in mind, our celebration will be highly photographed and any shenanigans will be captured and thoroughly mocked for years to come! Please drink responsibly.

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held outdoors. In case of inclement weather, the ceremony will be moved indoors. The cocktail hour will take place on a covered patio with access to some outdoor space. The reception will be indoors.

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Where are y’all registered?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. Should you wish to honor us with a gift, we will have a card box at the reception and we have created a registry on Amazon. You can access the registry at: https://www.amazon.com/wedding/share/JennyandTommy

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What’s for dinner?

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Dinner will be buffet style with a couple of entre options to choose from. We kindly ask that you let us know of any allergies so we can share that information with our caterer.