FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Friday, September 26, 2025. If you did not RSVP by this date and did not let Tony or Jemzi know, we have assumed you are not attending. Please communicate with us if anything changes!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at 2:30 to give yourself ample time to find parking, walk up to the ceremony site (it is an uphill walk on grass) and find a seat. The ceremony is planned to begin at 3 pm.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! The dress code is semi-formal; dress to express. Think comfortable yet elevated. We ask folks to please refrain from wearing any white/tan/cream colored garments/ dresses. If you are in doubt, please ask the bride or any bridesmaids! November in Santa Cruz is mildly cool and humid with average highs of 65°F (18°C) and lows of 49°F (9°C). It is the beginning of the rainy season, so we generally don't get big storms yet, but mild rain. It is usually a mix of sun and clouds so bring layers! The ceremony will be outside and reception indoors. Rehearsal dinner is dressy casual, very relaxed though. Come feeling cute yet comfy. Cocktail dresses, midi dresses, or dressy skirts. Wedges, flats, and block heels are perfect for navigating the barn and outdoor areas. Dress shirts with slacks, optional ties, or blazers. Boots or loafers are welcome.

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes, however we are letting the parents decide! Everyone listed on the reservation, including children, is invited. Parents, if you prefer to leave the kids at home, we get it! If you'd like to bring the whole family, we would love to have everyone there! We will not have a separate space for children or a designated babysitter so please take this into consideration.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let Tony or Jemzi know ASAP! We will do our best to accomodate all of our guests!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, guests can use parking lots 115/116 (across Coolidge Drive), and the Barn Theater, lot #122 (base of campus) if available. The Hay Barn has a total of 22 regular parking spaces and 1 ADA space for VIPs and/or parking for people with mobility issues. Ride Share services, public transportation, and carpooling are strongly encouraged! Please note there is NO parking allowed on Ranch View Road! This could result in a parking citation.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please check the travel section on our website: https://www.zola.com/wedding/jemziandtony/travel. Anywhere in Santa Cruz or nearby in Capitola/ Scotts Valley is recommended.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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No. Please consider carpooling and using ride share services!

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Are you registered? Where?

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We are humbly asking for cash donations to our honeymoon trip to Australia and New Zealand aka Middle Earth! We are registered with Zola on this website: https://www.zola.com/wedding/jemziandtony/registry