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Crystal Lam

&

Jemmery Eligan

#JemNi

June 7, 2026

Temecula, CA
37 days37 d14 hours14 h58 minutes58 min8 seconds8 s

How We Met

First comes school, then comes marriage

Crystal and Jem’s paths crossed in a humble community college chemistry class, where Crystal was convinced there were zero cute guys and where Jem immediately noticed one girl who was equal parts pretty and crazy, in the best way. What began as a few innocent study sessions quickly turned into more classes together, more late-night cramming, and more opportunities for them to get to know each other. Before long, and after a very long email chain, they became each other’s favorite lab partners, note-sharing allies, and mutual crushes who pretended not to notice the obvious. After months of hanging out, grinding through exams, and grabbing food together, Crystal realized Jem was never going to make the first move. So she asked him out. What started as “just studying” shifted into Crystal watching Jem pretend he understood stoichiometry, and Jem pretending he wasn’t already thinking about asking her on a real date. Their first date at the skating rink was unforgettable in its own chaotic way: two fully grown adults clinging to the rail, sliding around like Bambi’s cousins, and acting like it was totally intentional. From there, they supported each other through school, moved to San Diego to finish college side by side, and slowly built a life full of food adventures, road trips, late-night talks, and shared dreams. Nearly over a decade later during a trip to Japan, after a failed mountaintop proposal plan, and Crystal getting sick. Jem got down on one knee on the balcony of their onsen hotel room. Perfectly imperfect. Completely them. And now they’re here, grateful that one chemistry class (and some very uncoordinated skating) sparked a love story nearly ten years in the making.

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