These are our flag bearers. They lead the way for the bridal party and are celebratory of those that have come before us. We are proud of our heritage and family. Serbian Flag: Jelena being born in Serbia and proud of her heritage. American Flag: Mark & Jelena both raised in America and proud.
Kolo is a traditional, collective folk dance performed by dancers interlinked to form a chain, usually moving in a circle holding hands. It is performed to the accompaniment of music during private and public gatherings and plays an integrative social role, involving all members of the community (in this case all of you!). We want everyone to join in so here is a link to learn how to kolo! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdcACqkWwg4
Throughout the service, everything is done in threes in remembrance of the Trinity (the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit). The three-finger formation (with thumb, index, and middle finger brought together) used by those of Serbian-Orthodox faith represents the Holy Trinity, as well. You will see this as they cross themselves.
The rings are first blessed by the priest, who holds them in his right hand and makes the sign of the cross over the couple’s heads. The rings are then placed on the right hand, the hand with which promises and/or oaths are traditionally made and the hand which the presence of God is recognized through the sign of the Cross. The rings are then exchanged between the couple three times. You will notice that their right hands are tied together when the priest reads the prayer that beseeches God to "join these servants, unite them in one mind one flesh." The hands are kept joined throughout the service to symbolize the "oneness" of the couple.
The rite of the crowning is the apex of the wedding service. The crowns are representative of the glory and honor with which God crowns the couple during the sacrament. The Bride and Groom are crowned as queen and king of their own little kingdom, which they will rule with wisdom, justice, and integrity.
Role of the Kum/Kuma (Kumovi): The role of the Kum/Kuma is that of the witness, a spiritual advisor that helps to protect your marriage. The Kum/Kuma enters into a family relationship with the couple, a role akin to that of a Godparent.
At the beginning of the reception, you will hear a song being played and see guests immediately rise from the chairs to join the bride and groom near the head table. We highly encourage all guests to join in this celebratory song! Svadba translates to "wedding" in English.