FAQs

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Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card? And by when?

Answer

No, we will not be collecting RSVP's online. Instead, we ask you to please return your RSVP card sent with your invitation by June 30, 2025. Within your invitation you should have received a pre-addressed and stamped envelope.

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How do I select my main course?

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A surf & turf will be served as the main course for all guests. There will be a vegetarian option available as well. The wait staff will ensure dietary restrictions are accommodated the night of the wedding.

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I have a food allergy or a dietary restriction, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes, within the wedding invitation on the RSVP card there is dedicated space to inform us of your food allergy or dietary restriction. Please include it there and inform the wait staff the night of the wedding just to be safe! You can always reach out to Kelly or Jeff to ensure it is shared with the venue ahead of time as well! Luckily, Shorehaven Golf Club is extremely accommodating and a nut-free facility.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, cocktail attire required. For the dress code, a suit and tie is required for men, while women could opt for a short or long cocktail dress or formal jumpsuit.

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

Your invitation will state if you received a guest or not. Unfortunately, due to space limitations, we cannot accommodate for all of our guests to bring a guest of their own.

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

Although we love and adore all of your children, we’ve elected to limit our ceremony and reception to adults only.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to be seated in the church by 1:45pm as the ceremony will begin promptly at 2pm.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, both St. Thomas More and Shorehaven Golf Club offer plenty of parking. Should you elect not to take the shuttle transportation being provided from the hotel to the reception, Shorehaven Golf Club does offer valet parking, in addition to self park, for those who decide to drive.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony or reception?

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There will not be transportation provided to the wedding ceremony at St. Thomas More. However, we have arranged for roundtrip transportation for all wedding guests to be picked up from the Residence Inn Stamford Downtown to Shorehaven Golf Club. Busses will depart promptly at 4:30pm for the reception.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

Answer

YES! See additional event information on the Schedule tab.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! Check out the Registry tab above!