For Jose, it has been a long journey of trying different things, going to different places, and meeting lots of different people. Eventually, he figured out that to meet the right person, he himself had to be the right person to meet. For Judy, it was just a matter of her family convincing her to go online. Jose and Judy met on match.com. After meeting for wine (Judy’s second date of the day), they agreed to have an official date at the Phoenix Theatre two days later. This is where Judy learned that Jose can be horribly misunderstood as the woman seated next to them called him an “a$$hole” as he stepped away, but intentionally loud enough for Judy to hear. They think it was because he decided to use the restroom prior to the show. To be honest, they’re still not sure why it happened. But, she stuck it out, decided to cancel all of her other dates (there were many), and they’ve been together ever since!