We've decided not to reserve a hotel block, since different people will want different price points. The closest hotel is the Bancroft Hotel, but there are cheaper hotels throughout Berkeley. Probably the best choice (for comfort and price) is AirBnB, of which there are many choices in Berkeley/Oakland/Albany.
Absolutely!
Wear whatever makes you feel most beautiful! If it helps you to plan, Jeannette will in fact be wearing a dress :) Some actual guidelines: think dressy but not super formal. You know us.
After living together for many years (not to mention with wonderful roommates), we are fortunate to have a well-stocked home and few unmet needs. If you feel moved to contribute to our wedding, we would prefer that you help meet the needs of others via our favorite charities, which we've listed on the registry. Whatever you contribute, we'll group and pass on.