FAQs

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What’s the dress code?

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Our dress code is Black Tie Optional (or Formal, Cocktail Attire, etc.). Think suits and ties, evening gowns, or elevated cocktail dresses. We’d love for everyone to dress to impress.

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Where will the ceremony and reception be held?

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Both our ceremony and reception will be held at Black Oak Mountain Vineyards in Cool, California.

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Are kids welcome?

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Because of our venue’s capacity rules, we’re only able to include a very small number of children at the wedding. We truly wish we could invite everyone’s little ones, but we’re limited to our direct nieces and nephews. Thank you so much for understanding — we appreciate it more than you know.

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Do you have a registry?

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After 10 years of building a life together, we have everything we need. Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for—but if you’d like to contribute to our next chapter, a monetary gift would be deeply appreciated.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! We want everyone to have an amazing time, so we’ll have an open bar for you to enjoy. Just a heads-up: our venue doesn’t allow shots, and you’ll need a valid ID to be served.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly request that you keep your phones and cameras put away during the ceremony. We want you to fully enjoy the moment with us as we exchange our vows, and we’ll have a photographer and videographer capturing all the beautiful moments for you to relive later. Thank you for being present with us!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, absolutely! You’ll be able to indicate your preference between fish, steak, or chicken on the formal invitation, which will be sent out in a few months. If you have a food allergy or dietary restriction, there will also be a space to note that—we’ll do our best to accommodate!