FAQs
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What is the dress code?
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As you may know, we both LOVE to dress fancy (and we will arguably be the fanciest dressed people there). Formal attire (suit and tie/tuxedo, dresses/gowns) is recommended and encouraged. Dress to impress us!
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Do you have a hotel block for guests?
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Please see our "Travel" section for more details surrounding available hotel options.
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Where are you registered?
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Please see our "Registry" section for more details about where we are registered.
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What time should I arrive at the wedding ceremony?
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We recommend that you arrive about a half hour or so before the ceremony so that we can ensure our celebration starts on time. The cathedral is a beautiful place to sit and wait!
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Will celebrations be indoors or outdoors?
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Our wedding mass will be indoors but our reception will have an indoor and outdoor component. Cocktail hour will be held under a covered tent on the dock overlooking the Great South Bay. Guests will have access to this tent and the dock area throughout the night. If it rains or there is bad weather, the tent will be enclosed.
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Is there parking available?
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Parking will be available on site at both the ceremony and the reception for those who choose to drive themselves. Valet parking will be provided at the reception.
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What type of food will be served during the cocktail hour and reception?
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During cocktail hour there will be a reception table, hot and cold hors d'oeuvres passed butler style, and multiple stations featuring a variety of food. Immediately following, there will be a three course sit down dinner with an option of three plated entrees. For dessert, there will be a wedding cake along with pastries, cookies, and coffee/tea service. If there are any dietary restrictions, please include them on the RSVP card that will be sent along with the formal invitation.
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Will there be an open bar?
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YES. This will include beer, wine, liquor, and soft drinks. We will also each have a signature drink to choose from.
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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
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In order to keep our guest list on track we are only able to accommodate the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. We hope you understand!
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What's the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?
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If there are any additional questions, please use our designated wedding email: jaykaiwed23@gmail.com.